How it works
A calm, serious way to meet someone who wants the same kind of marriage and family life as you.
1. Create your account
Sign up with Google or with your email. You must be 18 or over. You choose what you consent to, and you can change your mind at any time in Settings.
2. Your basic profile
Your first name, who you would like to meet, where you live, the languages you speak and one clear photo of your face. We review every photo before anyone sees it.
3. Two rounds of questions
A first round about how you live and love, then a round about marriage and family: children, home life, faith, where you would like to live and when you hope to marry. Some answers, such as your marital status and whether you have children, are shown on your profile and are marked as such. More question packs make your scores more accurate.
4. Confirm your identity
Type your full name and a short statement that you are joining because you are looking for marriage, upload a photo of your ID and take a live selfie. Our team checks them by hand and then deletes the ID and selfie images. Your full name is never shown to other members.
5. Browse
You see members who fit what you are looking for and who are looking for someone like you, closest matches first. Each profile shows a compatibility score, how you fit on family, personality, faith and values, and life plans, and up to three things you share.
6. One pick a day
Once a day you can choose one person. They receive your request and can accept or decline. You can accept as many requests from others as you like.
7. Talk
When a request is accepted, a private chat opens. To keep things respectful, the person who writes first can send one message until the other replies. Inside the chat you can also see each other's answers about money, which are shared only once you are connected.
8. Dealbreakers
On any question you can mark answers you would not accept in a partner. People who give those answers do not appear in your list, and you do not appear in theirs.